Notes to My Younger (and Older) Self: The Power of Coming-of-Age Stories.

Notes to My Younger (and Older) Self: The Power of Coming-of-Age Stories.

I’ve always approached coming-of-age stories with a healthy dose of scepticism. Not because they lack depth—quite the opposite—but because they tend to pull me deep into the mind of a young person. And every time I finish one, I’m left with this lingering “notes to my younger self” kind of feeling. But it’s not just about regrets or missed opportunities. More often than not, these stories open me up to new perspectives. I come away from them not only reflecting on the past but also writing notes to my older self—wiser, changed, and more aware.

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That, to me, is the magic of the coming-of-age genre. It’s a powerful form of storytelling that traces the emotional, moral, and psychological growth of a young protagonist. Through their journey, we don’t just witness change—we experience it. These stories invite us to revisit the innocence of youth, only to watch it evolve, fade, or sharpen as life unfolds. In doing so, they hold up a mirror to our own experiences, no matter our age.

If you’re someone looking to explore new genres of fiction, a coming-of-age story is a meaningful place to start. Why? Because viewing the world through a young person’s eyes can challenge your beliefs, nudge you into re-evaluating long-held assumptions, and often awaken a sense of empathy you didn’t know you needed.

One of the genre’s greatest strengths lies in its emotional honesty. It’s filled with highs and lows, vulnerability and strength. And while the protagonist grows and transforms, the reader is often transformed too. Because, really—do we ever stop growing? I believe growth is continuous. It’s an essential part of being human.

These stories delve into universal themes: family tension, cultural and societal expectations, self-identity, friendship, loss, love, and resilience. They aren’t just for the young—they’re for anyone who understands that life is a journey of becoming.

That’s why I’m excited to launch a new series of reviews centered on the coming-of-age genre. Each story I share will not just be a critique but a conversation—a chance to reflect, to learn, and to connect. I hope these reviews will spark meaningful discussions, encourage you to revisit your own growth, and maybe even inspire you to pick up a story that stays with you long after the last page.

Let’s explore these stories together—and see what they can teach us about ourselves.

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